Enough is Enough

I swear my ex husband and my kid are driving me crazy with all the bullshit. Okay, I get an email from him today accusing me of not spending time with my kids and leaving them with my oldest daughter while my husband and I go out on Friday nights. See, I get my kids every other weekend for now, but I have never left them with my daughter or anyone so we can go out. Now mind you my youngest daughter told him this.. well that got me pissed off. For starters she lied to her father, lying is one thing I do not put up with it. This isn't the first time they have went and told half truths or flat out lies to there father and then it starts a feud between me and him. This has been going on for 4 years now. 


I told him that he needs to sit the kids down and get to the bottom of this because I am tired of being accused of stuff that doesn't happen. Why, my kids go back and them this I don't know. Because when they are with me they don't' want to go back home and we always have a good time. I know that my kids get upset because we don't' have the money to take them places every time they come over here. But just like I told my ex, even if we do have the money we wouldn't do that anyways. I am trying to teach my kids that money isn't everything that you can have fun without having to spend money to do it. My ex and his new wife basically buy there love, that isn't how I do things.  My kids obviously can't or want understand that. So, I am about to really show the side of me that my ex or my kids don't want to see.. because I am seriously getting fed up with all this bullshit.  


Enough is enough.. bottom line!