We are in the money :)

I just got some great news the other day that will be a big change in our lives. Almost 2 years ago I hurt my back at my former work, slipped two disks in my back.  So after fighting with the doctors and workmans comp for almost 2 years, I got a call from my case worker the other day and was told that they are willing to settle with me. I want put the amount of how much we settled, but let say its a great amount that will take the steps to make a better life for us.  Needless to say we have been on cloud 10 for the past couple days since we found out the news. Cross fingers that nothing goes wrong, when we go in front of the judge to settle.

This is a blessing for us in so many ways,  All of my life I have been struggling as my husband has. Just to be able to not be stressed out all the time wondering where we will get the money to pay bills or buy groceries and provide for our kids.  Now I can start my own business I have been wanting to for years and for my husband and I to go back to school.  I guess life works in mysterious ways and everything does happen for a reason. For me, it was getting this settlement and taking to steps to change our lives for the better. Thank you god! 

Just wanted to share my news. Everyone have a great night, until next time..

Calgon Take Me Away!

Have you ever had one of those days where you wish you could run away :) Well today has been one of those days for me.  Woke up with a splitting headache, which I been having every day for a week. I have a back injury, which when it hurts my head hurts and then throw me being stressed out on top of that. Filed my taxes and I keep getting rejected emails, so having to deal with that and then my 18 yr daughter is giving us attitudes.  You see why I say "Calgon take me away" I am surprised I haven't gone 10 floor crazy by now. My poor husband just laughs at me and deals the best way he can with my moods. Believe me I am not easy to be around when I am like this.


Oh, well it has to better sooner or late, right? Please god let it get better because I so need a break from all this madness.  This year has just started and it feels like the middle of the year. To much shit going on and to much drama having to put up with.  But that is life, I guess.  I want just want a simple, non drama life, is that possible? Probably not, but hey I can dream! Well writing this post has help me vent, so til next time.. 

Darts, YAY!

My husband and I have started our own dart team, Yes.. Darts!  We played our first game tonight, we lost but oh well we will get them next time. All that matters was we had fun, and since our team is named "Simply Fun", that is all we are about. Its kinda of ironic, because if it wasn't for me getting with my husband I would have never gotten into darts. Its very fun, well minus all the drama bullshit that goes on and the cocky players.


My husband comes up to me tonight and tells me that is about the "skull drag" one of the other team players because he was being cocky. I told him be cocky back, give him the taste of his own medicine. I mean seriously.. whatever happen to just having fun. My husband has been in darts for 15 years and he said back when he started it was all about fun, now its all about the drama.I just sometimes want to slap some of the people we have to play,.but we love to do it and we have a night out for ourselves. Just have to overlook some of the others players obnoxious ways. 


Well goodnight, all.. until next time!

First Post, Just Venting!

You want to know what really peeves me, "fat remarks". Now it wouldn't be so bad if it was from an stranger, but from your roomate and friend.. that makes a little personal. So get this my husband tells me that our roomate (mentioned above) made a fat remark towards me. He was lucky I wasn't there or I would have plowed into him. I am not a size 6, but a size 12/14 and proud of it. Yes, I have some "junk in the trunk" as you would say, but I called that my having babies love handles :). I consider myself voluptuousness, but sexy as I am sure alot of women my size do that are proud of there bodies. Koodos to them, I say. I tell you what, as far as in the bedroom, we can rock our mens worlds. Just had to throw that little tidbit in lol.


It pisses me off that plus size women or so stereotyped,  I mean seriously you don't' have to be a size 0 to be beautiful and sexy. Because I tell you what i have seen allot of plus size women that are beautiful inside and out. No, I am not talking about models, but everyday people.  It just sickens me that we are put down for how we look. What ever happened to just personality?  I swear some men, just doesn't get that, they see a women with a tiny waist, big boobs and they are in love.. but in reality most of them have shitty personalities.  What has this world come too?